Taking a ‘time out’ from the chaos
Excuse me while I dust off the keyboard here! I can’t believe it has been almost a month since I last posted. Let me start today’s post with this question: Did you get everything done this summer that...
View ArticleDon’t make a permanent decision based on temporary emotions (my confession...
If there is one thing we’ve learned through this journey, and in life in general, it’s THIS. “Don’t make a permanent decision based on temporary emotions.” Here is the short summary of what this means...
View ArticleQuiet Crisis {VIDEO} inside scoop
Wow, has it really been a month since I last had the chance to post? ::::dusts off keyboard::::: I’ll get to my excuses in a minute. First I want to share an important video. On September 1st, an...
View ArticleNew York Times/Retro Report: Walter Reed: The Battle for Recovery
On Monday the New York Times distributed the Retro Report documentary that we were in. You can read the original stories by clicking the following links: Retro Report: Walter Reed: The...
View ArticleWhat Is Your Stress Barometer? (The Tale of The Twitchy Eye)
Have you ever had what is best described as a “twitchy eye”? It is the phenomenon where the area around your eye starts to flutter and twitch. It’s annoying. It’s tickly. From your vantage point, you...
View ArticleVeterans = The REAL party of “personal responsibility”
I stay away from discussions about politics and religion for a reason, but it’s high time I share what the government shutdown is doing to OUR family and who the true party of personal responsibility...
View ArticleThe best advice I can give to another caregiver in two minutes or less
No one will give you a handbook. There isn’t one! There is no recipe to follow. Only you can find the spice that makes your skillet sizzle. Sometimes — no matter how hard you try or how careful you...
View ArticleAre you in the club no one wants to join?
This is a loaded topic for me and mannnnny others, but today I want to talk about something that came up recently regarding family who doesn’t ‘get it’ in understanding the complexities and challenges...
View ArticleDisabled veteran asks: “Should I be afraid to file for student loan...
I have written about the Department of Education’s Disability Discharge program in the past and have answered gobs of questions (in comments sections) on these previous posts: Original Post: Did you...
View ArticleThe “anniversary period”, explained.
Veteran caregivers: It’s that time of year again! If your veteran is acting ‘wonky’ or is agitated more than usual, this is a gentle reminder to be extra patient because this time of year is when many...
View ArticleThe secret ingredient to moving on in life after combat
(Or, “Mourning the loss of what once was”) About the advice I am sharing today This topic comes up behind the scenes more times than I can count. I have had more one-on-one conversations with caregiver...
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